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ira's avatar

iam reading this and iam reading you and there's so much love it's making me want to call my friends. wenyi reading your post is equivalent to me eating ice cream for breakfast maybe better

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wenyi xue's avatar

thank u so much 🥹 call ur friends they love you too !! + I love eating ice cream for breakfast hahah

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nadav's avatar

feel like im breathing wrong after reading this

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wenyi xue's avatar

that's bc you are 🤺

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nadav's avatar

how it feels to respond to myself on my alt

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anya's avatar

this was so so so sweet and vulnerable. made my week <3

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wenyi xue's avatar

awww thank you!! 🫶 I hope the rest of ur week goes well too

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Francisca Denyer's avatar

Lovely and I agree that we too often worry about the thorns rather than smell the roses

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wenyi xue's avatar

yes!! Thank u very much for reading :)

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hailee bella's avatar

this is so beautiful!!

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wenyi xue's avatar

Thank u so much :)

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Monique's avatar

A piece drenched in sweetness. Thank you

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wenyi xue's avatar

Thank u for reading :)

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raisa's avatar

"If you cannot hold onto light, you can at least hold onto words" is such a beautiful and introspective sentence. Absolutely loved reading this, thank you for sharing!

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wenyi xue's avatar

Thank u so much for reading <3 I'm glad u enjoyed!

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jamie's avatar

thank you

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wenyi xue's avatar

<3

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ethan's avatar

this is so so so amazing to read !!! i love the “listing things that you are thankful for” idea because it really helps me see the world positively <3 i love ur writing sososos much !!!

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wenyi xue's avatar

Thank u so so much <3333

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F.D.'s avatar

this is very sweet. gratitude is such an important emotion to living a happy life yet oftentimes its so awkward to practice, especially out loud.

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wenyi xue's avatar

Yes 100% :) !!!

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Hafsa's avatar

this is so beautiful I almost cried!!!

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wenyi xue's avatar

thank u ! :) <3

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Lara's avatar

This is so beautiful and so full of love and I love the little tip of writing three things to be grateful for. I too struggle with this idea that when things are going too well, it means something bad is coming. This is just what I needed with my morning coffee🖤

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wenyi xue's avatar

Thank you so much! And I think what helped me most was realizing the opposite was true too - if things are going poorly, then good things are on the horizon :) so it's better to focus on the moment when things r well and to hold on + wait when things r bad. (But ofc it still takes a very conscious effort to remember hahaha)

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Firnita's avatar

thank you for writing this! i feel relieved knowing that writing about joy is a collective struggle and glad to be reminded that it can start from the little things of everydayy

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wenyi xue's avatar

Thank you for reading!! And I'm rlly glad this helped <3

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molly's avatar

This is gorgeous - so vulnerable and affecting in the best way, and, like all the best writing, full of lines I wish I had written myself

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wenyi xue's avatar

thank you so much <33 that's so kind <333

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nellie martin's avatar

"If I cannot hold onto these blessings, I can at least trace their outline with my pen." so um yet again you've split my soul, wenyi. this is such a lovely + acute representation of why i write.

really beautiful, vulnerable work here (:

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wenyi xue's avatar

thank u so so much !!! <33

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David Kane's avatar

Lovely read. Ah yes, *the fear*. When I went from precarity to relative stability, I wondered if the fear was every gonna go away. It goes dormant and rears up when things get shaky, but a good thing to remember is that you are capable of making your life better. You did it before, you can do it again. Happy for your continued success!

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wenyi xue's avatar

Thank you so much. Honestly feel like I needed to hear this today so thank you not just for reading but also for commenting :)

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